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Top PUA teachers reveal there best pick up lines


Non-verbal pick up lines:

You can use body language and gestures to open girls. Here I will give you a few examples to go by.

Wave towards the girls and when they wave back you gesture a "not you, them"... later you can go over and say "that was smooth casanova, don't you hate it when you wave back at somebody that wasn't waving at you? haha".

If you spot a girl eyeing you down from across a club or bar, smile and use your fingers like a piece sign and point at both of your eyes and then back at hers... then point at the ground infront of you and do a "come here" gesture. She'll smile but if she doesn't come over then you can walk up to her with a dissapointed smile and open with "You looked nervous so I thought I'd come put you on the spot. :) ". ,

Another example of a non-verbal opener would be the once in a while eye lock that happens and she doesn't look away shyly. In this moment you can walk slowly and confidently towards her as you maintain eye contact. If she doesn't break and the "lust eye" is still there. Don't say anything, touch her hand. Look at her lips and back into her eyes, smile, and pull her in for a kiss.

That is probably one of the sexiest things that you could do and it feels earthshattering when you pull it off.

A lot of times non-verbal pick up lines work really well because there an easy way to judge whether an approach is going to go well. If she\'s not interested her facial expression will show it. And a lot of times you will do a non-verbal opener and forget about it... then later on in the night you\'ll bump into eachother again and it will be much easier to start the conversation without looking like your picking her up.

These pick up lines happen on the fly. This is where you need to be creative and come up with stuff on your own as the experiences present themselves just like a PUA does.

Examples:
- OMG did you guys see the fight outside? Ya it was crazy, between 2 girls fighting over a little person.
- (Watching a tsunami) Wow I hope there ok, that would be so crazy wouldn't it.
- (At a toy store or a kid in a resturaunt is annoying people with a toy) Man that would be so cool if you were a kid, dont you think so?

Scenario & observational pick up lines are exactly as they sound... references to the current scenario or observing that of which you are in and then making them into a conversation starter.

The direct pick up line is my personal favorite as well as many PUA coaches. Once you get over approach anxiety you will relize that doing a direct approach during the day is very effective and also saves you a lot of time. Because if she's interested you know right away... and if she's not you get blown out right away. If you can do a direct approach during the day then she knows you have balls. Most guys that hit on girls during the day use dumb pick up lines or they decide that yelling out the window of there car is gonna get her to like you. Please don't do that... guys that do that are scum and the girls know it. Anyway if you can walk up and in a slow sexy voice with pauses and a smile say:

"Hi my names Nick and I just... I thought you we're absolutly stunning... I had to come meet you."

Replace the words absolutly and stunning with anything you want:
remarkably cute
really adorable
classicly sexy (this one is great for cougers and older women "Sexy" hits deep with them.)

- Hi, I know this is really random but I thought you were really cute and I wanted to meet you. I'm John...

Note: I added "really random" because it emphasizes that your not out picking up women all day... and also portrays that your genuine. You could also slot in a false time constraint here if you wanted to. Be careful not to have too long of an opener though.



There is a couple things that could happen here:
1.) She is totally stunned and freezes. (Guys this stuff doesn't happen during the day, women get all dolled up and go run errands hoping that one day a guy like you will come along and say something like this to them. Ask yourself... have you ever seen a guy have the balls to classily go over to a drop dead gorgeous girl and say that?) Another great way to look at this is that even if you fail at getting her number... you will still MAKE HER DAY!

If she freezes just go straight into a cold read as we will cover soon. Like "You just had this really cool west coast girl vibe going on." or you can ask her for her name. It's hard to not reply to that one.

2.) She says "thank you"... at which point you go into a cold read or the next part of your conversation routine.

3.) She rejects you... at which point you say. "Well have a good day, I just wanted to pay you the compliment of coming over."

- Next time your at the beach put your towel on your back like a superman cape... and do a front roll next to the suntaning girl you want to talk to. You should land with your towel perfectly positioned with you lying ontop of it next to her. "HI"... she should be giggling at this point and banter should come naturaly. (extra) after you land with your towel under you have a friend toss you a beer, open it, take a sip... pause, then say "HI"...

Those are some of the pick up lines PUA and other dating coaches use on a regular basis. Come up with you own and post them above.